{"id":530,"date":"2010-11-23T09:21:05","date_gmt":"2010-11-23T15:21:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.drbilltoth.com\/blog\/?p=530"},"modified":"2010-11-23T09:27:25","modified_gmt":"2010-11-23T15:27:25","slug":"ill-be-happy-when","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.drbilltoth.com\/?p=530","title":{"rendered":"I’ll be happy when…"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ever have a family member say; “I’ll be happy when XYZ happens FIRST” Or a business partner say; “I’ll be successful when XYZ happens FIRST”. <\/p>\n

Whenever someone puts that kind of block in their way it is a form of self denial. Do not fall into the trap of giving them XYZ. Instead focus on addressing the underlying deserve or fear issue. <\/p>\n

If you’re successful at doing so – Your results will benefit both parties.<\/p>\n

“Nothing will ever be attempted if all possible objections must first be overcome.<\/em>”<\/p>\n

Samuel Johnson, 1709-1784, Essayist, Biographer and Poet<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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