{"id":884,"date":"2011-03-25T06:34:13","date_gmt":"2011-03-25T11:34:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.drbilltoth.com\/blog\/?p=884"},"modified":"2011-03-25T06:34:13","modified_gmt":"2011-03-25T11:34:13","slug":"communication-tool-part-4","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.drbilltoth.com\/?p=884","title":{"rendered":"Communication Tool part 4"},"content":{"rendered":"

More from the precision model….affectionately referred to as the “fluff buster” tool. Again when using this tool coming from a loving place with a loving tone is key. Also it is best to use “I” statements like “I appreciate your comments and..” or “I respect your comments and…” Never say “I understand” because until you’ve asked questions you have too little clarity. The idea is to communicate more effectively because often the same words mean different things to different people and at different times…like the word “love”.<\/p>\n

Part 4 Universals = All, Every, Never<\/p>\n

Again here you want to get to specifics…..simply question the term All? Every ? Never? by repeating their statement followed by the questioning tonality <\/em>All??? Every??? Never???<\/p>\n

Example: ALL kids are ill mannered??? or “Your employees NEVER??? work?”<\/p>\n

By doing so you induce a little doubt and open the person up to discovering for themselves the specific circumstances that relate to the situation. Only then can proper solutions be revealed and implemented.<\/p>\n

Live with Intention,
\nDr Bill<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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