{"id":993,"date":"2011-05-03T05:43:31","date_gmt":"2011-05-03T10:43:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.drbilltoth.com\/blog\/?p=993"},"modified":"2011-05-03T05:43:31","modified_gmt":"2011-05-03T10:43:31","slug":"attention-relationship-and-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.drbilltoth.com\/?p=993","title":{"rendered":"Attention, Relationship and IT"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Good Morning Team &#8211;<\/p>\n<p>Nominalizations  &#8211; words like &#8220;attention&#8221;, &#8220;relationship&#8221; and &#8220;IT&#8221; are frequently used as nouns&#8230;..only they&#8217;re NOT &#8211; a person, place or thing (definition of a noun.). <\/p>\n<p>They are in fact processes which are frequently &#8220;Nominalized&#8221; ie they lose their specificity &#8230;thereby leading to mis-communication. <\/p>\n<p>Example; sometimes a prospect with prior experience in the Network Marketing or Franchise industry will say; &#8220;IT&#8221; didn&#8217;t work for me&#8221;  to which one reply could be; &#8220;I&#8217;m curious &#8211; how specifically did &#8220;IT&#8221; not work for you&#8221;?   <\/p>\n<p>Be careful &#8211; stay playful and curious like a child because with this line of questioning you&#8217;re bringing a person dangerously close to having them take personal responsibility for their situation and if they catch on they may feel that you&#8217;re attacking them.  So stay loving, and curious like a child. <\/p>\n<p>Because about 99% of the time either the person simply didn&#8217;t treat &#8220;IT&#8221; like a business and allocate time and energy to build &#8220;IT&#8221;    OR  they didn&#8217;t receive or accept the coaching, training and support available to them.<\/p>\n<p>Live With Intention,<br \/>\nDr Bill<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Good Morning Team &#8211; Nominalizations &#8211; words like &#8220;attention&#8221;, &#8220;relationship&#8221; and &#8220;IT&#8221; are frequently used as nouns&#8230;..only they&#8217;re NOT &#8211; a person, place or thing (definition of a noun.). They are in fact processes which are frequently &#8220;Nominalized&#8221; ie they &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.drbilltoth.com\/?p=993\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7,6],"tags":[29,119,32,154,37,27,152,117,118,43,30,125,42,28,36,126,153,31],"class_list":["post-993","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-business-coaching","category-personal-development","tag-author","tag-bill-toth","tag-business-coach","tag-create-your-fate","tag-createyourfate","tag-dr-bill-toth","tag-dr-billtoth1","tag-drbill-toth","tag-drbilltoth","tag-entrepreneur","tag-father","tag-julie-toth","tag-leadership-development","tag-morning-moments","tag-neurolinguistics","tag-nlp","tag-postaday2011","tag-speaker"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.drbilltoth.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/993","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.drbilltoth.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.drbilltoth.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.drbilltoth.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.drbilltoth.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=993"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.drbilltoth.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/993\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":994,"href":"http:\/\/www.drbilltoth.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/993\/revisions\/994"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.drbilltoth.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=993"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.drbilltoth.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=993"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.drbilltoth.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=993"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}