Scientific Proof Part 1/3

For business owners or Sales reps this little phrase has been passed down for many generations; Stories sell, Facts only tell. The most important part of any presentation is you telling your story of why you started your business – in 2 minutes or less – because that’s what people will remember.

Daniel Pink, the author of many books on how we humans process thoughts writes in A Whole New Mind, “Story represents a pathway to understanding that doesn’t run through the left side of the brain.” People can more easily recognize patterns and make meaning from seemingly non-related events and information thru a story line vs a series or list of facts.

Marco Iacoboni, neuroscientist, writes in his book, Mirroring People; “Why do we give ourselves over to emotion during the carefully crafted, heartrending scenes in certain movies? Because mirror neurons in our brains re-create for us the emotional distress we see on the screen. We have empathy for the fictional characters – we know how they’re feeling – because we literally experience the same feelings ourselves.”

John Medina, molecular biologist explains in his new book, Brain Rules; “When the brain detects an emotionally charged event, the Amygdala releases dopamine into the system. Because dopamine greatly aids memory and information processing, you could say it creates a ‘Post It’ note that reads, ‘Remember this because it’s important.’”

In other words, we don’t just listen to stories; we see images and feel emotions. We actually experience the story as if it’s happening to us. And because a person can remember the story, they can remember your key point which then can be transformed into an actionable event called making a “sale”.

Tomorrow; More proof – Stories Sell

Live With Intention,
Dr Bill

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What’s Love got to do with it?

At some level every aspect of your business relates to the “heart”.

Personally, I LOVE it when I/we say or do something from the front of the room or during a coaching session and I can see, hear, or feel the “light bulb” go on for someone. Maybe it’s just the fact they discover that they can own their own business vs having a job, maybe it’s the health aspect, the concept of “Team”, mentoring, goal getting vs goal setting, Purpose, Core Values, Leadership development etc etc. Whatever “it” is for the person – I LOVE it when I can see, hear or feel the “light bulb” go on. That’s my “thing”, the moment of discovery, Making a Difference one presentation, 1 comment, 1 phone call, 1 email, 1 blog post at a time.

At your company it is likely the Founder’s LOVE creating a legacy, providing opportunity, values driven Leadership and more. Maybe you have scientists who LOVE the discovery process. Maybe you IT dept loves creating systems you can use. It is likely that your Customer service dept loves solving challenges. Hopefully your sales reps love the company or the opprtunity to create Freedom that comes from commish based sales. And the list goes on – at every level of your business – LOVE and “Heart” play a role. Or at least – I believe – it should.

Every great achievement is the victory of a flaming heart

–Ralph Waldo Emerson

Happy Healthy Valentine’s Day!!

Live With Intention,
Dr Bill

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Your Values Drive Your Purpose

You are what your deep driving desire is. As your desire is, so is your will. As your will is, so is your deed. As your deed is, so is your Destiny.”

–The Upanishads

How many adults do you know became a doctor, lawyer, letter carrier, etc because their parents wanted them to? Did a friend of yours go into their family’s business because it was also expected of them? Are you doing what you’re doing because somebody else thought it was a good idea for you?

Discovering your purpose will put your life into crystal-clear perspective. You will see another world, one in which you are a necessary and intricate spoke in the wheel. Your purpose is waiting for you to figure it out….and when you DO…you’ll create a new world, a new reality, a new wholeness where everything you need seems to flow to you.

WHAT IS MY PURPOSE? You cannot find this answer in a book or a class. (Wouldn’t it be nice and simple if you could?) The answer can only be found deep inside of you.

How do you find your purpose? My suggestion is meditation, or deep, controlled, concentrated thought. Find a quiet place where you won’t be disturbed. Relax and tap into your mind, way back there in the deepest, secret compartment of your mind, by asking yourself this question:

If I knew my life purpose, what would it be?

Grab a pen and start writing.

Live With Intention,
Dr Bill

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Misperceived lack

There is nothing absent or lacking, Everything is present, already in potential.”

–Lopon Tenzin Namdak

Oz didn’t give anything to the Tin man that he didn’t already have.

Live With Intention,
Dr Bill

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Is Your Business Taking Over Your Marriage

Today Entrepreneur published a column that lightly covers this topic.

To read the Entrepreneur article Click Here

My wife and I absolutely LOVE coaching “Couples in Business“. We’re just average people who learned a few important things we love to share. In short; “We’ve traveled the territory, drawn a few maps and are happy to share them

Most small businesses are started on a part time basis, by one spouse, with or without the support of the other. And because income and expenditure decisions will naturally affect the entire household, you then have a “Couple in Business” even though only one partner may be “active” in the business. This is where the journey begins and where we come in.

By design, our business plan fits into an even greater “Family Plan”. Anybody can live life this way, if they first Decide to make it so. There is a systematic process to putting “family first” and actually walking the talk.

First, we teach couples to first Decide what is most important to each as individuals, then as a couple. When you become aware of your core values, and then act from them, all future decisions are easier, quicker and serve you, your family and others. From there we guide folks as they Design a Life based upon their core values and timeless principles. Then As Julie explains, “Your business can fit into your Life – rather than making life the reason you can’t do your business – make your life the reason you can and will do your business.”

Live With Intention,
Dr Bill

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