How do successful people decide what unique goals they are going to accomplish? How do they know exactly what they desire? How do they distinguish between what others want them to do, what society tells them they should do and what they really desire to do with their lives? I believe everything you need to know about your passions and your true calling in life is within you right now. You only need to recognize this information and use it to accomplish your purpose(s) on this planet.
When people say things like: “The ocean is beautiful” or “There’s nothing more breathtaking than a sunset” do you ever find yourself robotically agreeing with them without consciously thinking about their statements? This is a common practice. What if, when you really consider your feelings, you discover you prefer mountain peaks to ocean views, or would rather watch the sun rise than set? Your opinions and feelings are your own – they belong to you. Never allow others to tell you what you think, who you are — or what you should be doing with your life.
If you have a burning desire to be what your parents, family and friends want you to be, that’s one thing. And if your true passion has nothing to do with medical school or the family business then it is your responsibility to follow your heart. Is this being selfish?
Absolutely – and it is your duty to accomplish your mission on earth. Are people going to be upset that you’re not doing what they want you to do? Sure they will – the question is – will you allow yourself to be swayed by those who lack the courage to follow their own dreams. You’re only responsible for your happiness. You were put here for a unique reason.
Here’s another process to assist you in figuring this out for yourself. All you have to do is ask yourself these questions every day, several times a day, for the next week, month, year… until you find the answer that is uniquely yours..your reason for being here on this planet.
1. If I had all the money I could spend in 10 lifetimes, what would I do for free?
2. What am I passionate about? (This question could be answered by looking at your hobbies, interests, charity work, etc.)
3. Who are my mentors, my role models, the people I admire the most? What have these people accomplished that makes me respect them so much? Are they doing or have they done what I desire to do?
Answering these questions will help you define your passions and talents, what you want to do (and were meant to do) with your life and the person you Desire to become. And once you have your answer…remember it’s not the “How” – it’s the WHY – that matters. The “How” will be revealed to you by your mentors and learned by Doing. The “WHY” is what will drive you. This is called;
Living with Intention
About Dr Bill Toth
Bill’s Background
I’m just an average guy who’s learned a few things about Life, Success and Personal Development – thanks to some incredibly good and bad experiences during the past 25+ years. I’ve made many mistakes and have learned to combine down to earth values with a unique ability to distill complex concepts into simple powerful strategies which can be immediately applied to produce measurable results. In short;
“I’ve traveled the territory, drawn a few maps and I’m happy to share them”
I do not consider myself to be an “expert” and my work is never presented as the definitive doctrine on how you should live your life or what it takes to be successful in your business. I am a work in progress and if you were to you join me on life’s journey by hiring me as your coach or partnering with us in business – our learning will very likely be a two way street. In fact, I expect it to be.
“What you know dies with you – what you DO leaves a legacy”
I was raised in upstate New York and eastern Pennsylvania. This rural upbringing is strongly reflected in my personal value hierarchy: Faith > Family > Friends > Fitness and Finance.
Education and a commitment to continuous improvement are next on the list. All these and more are strongly reflected in my coaching, teaching, writing and speaking.
While growing my private practice I also taught Orthopedics and Neurology at both the undergraduate and graduate level, produced a TV show on fitness, appeared on numerous radio and TV programs, authored numerous journal articles, chapters for medical texts, served as vice-president of my state medical association, and started a family. I have had the honor and privilege of consulting with and coaching a diverse population of people from royalty to prisoners, from children to CEO’s, from amateur to professional athletes from 41 countries and people of almost every race, creed, religious belief and nationality.
I am passionately committed to contribution and Living With Intention. Part of my philosophy is to think globally while acting locally. I am a very active member of my church, as well as several community organizations. After church, my favorite philanthropy is the Nourish the Children. I have also performed extensive volunteer work for both the Anthony Robbins Foundation, and the Make a Wish Foundation.
Why become an Entrepreneur?
I became an entrepreneur because after 5 years of Health Care Reform I found I was merely an employee of the various insurance company’s I was interacting with. I became painfully aware I was working more hours for less money and that what I was doing wasn’t working!
At the same time my beautiful daughter, Casey, was born. This was the first time in my life I started to think about my future, and of course hers. When children come into your life, your perspective changes from Firebirds and Ferrari’s to Gymnastics, music lessons, horseback riding and so forth. Suddenly, I had to think longterm – was what I was doing going to provide all the things that a father wants for his children?
In October of 1998 I started my entrepreneurial endeavors on a very part time basis. Less than 3 months later my New Year’s Resolution was to put my practices up for sale. In May of 1999 I sold them and began to work on my dreams and my fortune on a full time basis. From there, it took me a full five years to get to the point where I could do whatever I wanted to do. Along the way I wrote my first book: “Morning Moments”…as well as learning a few things about money, transitioning careers and happiness. I am happy to share what I know, in short again;
“I’ve traveled the territory, drawn a few maps and I’m happy to share them”
In summary; Transitioning careers was the hardest challenge I’ve ever taken up and it’s been the most rewarding! In so many ways, this is the very best personal development seminar I’ve ever taken because I met mySelf and my wife in the process…and every perceived adversity was worth it.
Today, with my wife Julie, we “get to” pay the gift forward by coaching, mentoring others through the same process. There is no greater pleasure than showing others how to earn their freedom and then observing what good they do with it.
Life Will Never Be The Same
