How do successful people decide what unique goals they are going to accomplish? How do they know exactly what they desire? How do they distinguish between what others want them to do, what society tells them they should do and what they really desire to do with their lives? I believe everything you need to know about your passions and your true calling in life is within you right now. You only need to recognize this information and use it to accomplish your purpose(s) on this planet.
When people say things like: “The ocean is beautiful” or “There’s nothing more breathtaking than a sunset” do you ever find yourself robotically agreeing with them without consciously thinking about their statements? This is a common practice. What if, when you really consider your feelings, you discover you prefer mountain peaks to ocean views, or would rather watch the sun rise than set? Your opinions and feelings are your own – they belong to you. Never allow others to tell you what you think, who you are — or what you should be doing with your life.
If you have a burning desire to be what your parents, family and friends want you to be, that’s one thing. And if your true passion has nothing to do with medical school or the family business then it is your responsibility to follow your heart. Is this being selfish?
Absolutely – and it is your duty to accomplish your mission on earth. Are people going to be upset that you’re not doing what they want you to do? Sure they will – the question is – will you allow yourself to be swayed by those who lack the courage to follow their own dreams. You’re only responsible for your happiness. You were put here for a unique reason.
Here’s another process to assist you in figuring this out for yourself. All you have to do is ask yourself these questions every day, several times a day, for the next week, month, year… until you find the answer that is uniquely yours..your reason for being here on this planet.
1. If I had all the money I could spend in 10 lifetimes, what would I do for free?
2. What am I passionate about? (This question could be answered by looking at your hobbies, interests, charity work, etc.)
3. Who are my mentors, my role models, the people I admire the most? What have these people accomplished that makes me respect them so much? Are they doing or have they done what I desire to do?
Answering these questions will help you define your passions and talents, what you want to do (and were meant to do) with your life and the person you Desire to become. And once you have your answer…remember it’s not the “How” – it’s the WHY – that matters. The “How” will be revealed to you by your mentors and learned by Doing. The “WHY” is what will drive you. This is called;
Living with Intention
